“Hey, is this Jessica? Are we still on for dinner?” It seems harmless, even sweet. It’s often the first move in a very long con. Here’s why you should just delete it.
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“Hi, is this David? It’s Amy from the conference.” Or: “Are we still on for golf Saturday?” Or just: “Hey, long time no see!”
You don’t know an Amy. You don’t golf. The polite thing to do is text back “Sorry, wrong number,” right? Actually, the safe thing to do is nothing at all.
It’s a fisherman dropping a hundred lines in the water to see which one twitches. Replying, even just to say “wrong number,” is the twitch. Now they know a real person is on the other end.
These messages look pointless, and that’s on purpose. They’re not trying to trick you in the first message. They’re just checking two things: is this phone number real, and will the person answer?
Most of these texts are sent by automated bots, blasting out millions of messages at once. The bot doesn’t care who you are. It cares that you replied. A number that answers is worth more, and it goes on a list for the next step.
If you do reply, a friendly human (or a very convincing script) takes over. “Oh, so sorry! But you seem nice.” They chat. They ask about your day. Over days or weeks, they become a friend. Sometimes more than a friend.
And then, eventually, it comes up. An amazing investment they’ve been making. A crypto app that’s doing incredibly well. They’d love to show you how. That’s how a “wrong number” text turns into a fake investment app that empties someone’s savings. It’s the long con, and the wrong number was just the hook.
If it really was a wrong number, the person who sent it will figure it out when their friend doesn’t show up to golf. That’s their problem to solve, not yours.
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